Self-love is important to living at peace and living well. It influences everything in your life…..who you pick for your life’s partner, the image you project everywhere you go and everything you do, and especially how you cope with the problems in your life.
What is self-love, then? Where can you buy it? How do you acquire Self-love. Can you get more of it by reading an inspirational book or going to a seminar? Or, can a new relationship make you love yourself more? The answer to all of these questions is No! Although they feel good temporary you can’t grow in self-love through these types of activities.
Self-love is a state of appreciation for oneself that grows from actions that support our physical, mental, emotional and spiritual growth and wellbeing. Self-love is inner wisdom; it grows by actions which bring awareness to us. When we act and behave in ways that expand self-love in us, we begin to accept our strengths and pay less attention to explain away our shortcomings to ourselves and others, we can then have compassion for ourselves as human beings embarking on life’s journey to find personal meaning, are more centered in our life purpose and values, and expect living fulfillment through our own efforts.
Hypnosis can help you with Self-love in the following ways…..
Under Hypnosis I can create a program to reprogram the subconscious mind to more mindful. People who have more self-love tend to know what they think, feel and want. They are mindful of who they are and act on this knowledge, rather than on what others want for them.
And to Act on what you really need rather than what you think want. You love yourself when you can turn away from something that feels good and exciting to what you need to stay strong, centered, and moving forward in your life, instead. Hypnotherapy keeps you focused on what you need, you turn away from automatic behavior patterns that get you into trouble, keep you stuck in the past, and lessen self-love. The re-programing under hypnosis is specifically designed to help you .Practice good self-care. You will love yourself more, when you take better care of your basic needs. People high in self-love nourish themselves daily through healthy activities, like sound nutrition, exercise, proper sleep, and healthy social interactions. Setting boundaries. You’ll love yourself more when you set limits or say no to work, love, or activities that deplete or harm you physically, emotionally and spiritually, or express poorly who you are.
The heart of the reprogramming for self love is based on Forgiveness of yourself. We are so hard on ourselves. We tend to punish ourselves so much for mistakes in learning and growing. It’s important to accept your humanness (the fact that you are not perfect), before you can truly love yourself. Practice being less hard on yourself when you make a mistake. Remember, there are no failures, if you have learned and grown from your mistakes; there are only lessons learned.
Live with an intended purpose . You will accept and love yourself more, whatever is happening in your life, when you live with purpose by design and passion. Important note here…. Your purpose doesn’t have to be crystal clear to you. If your intention is to live a meaningful happy and healthy life, you will make decisions which support this intention, and feel good about yourself when you succeed in this purpose. You will love yourself more if you see yourself accomplishing what you set out to do. And experience Self-Love like you never have before!!